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About 365 days of marriage

I started this blog in April of 2011. At the time, Bret and I were wedding photographers and it was a way to share how marriage is more about the day to day and so much more than the wedding day itself. For about 5 years, I blogged about the joys and sorrows of the Christian walk, marriage, work, family and friends. I’ve blogged every day since a few weeks after I started. In May of 2015, we photographed our last wedding. Now, I have become passionate about simplicity, particularly in marriage, Christianity, business, travel and life. For a number of reasons, we have become minimalists. I’ve found that having simplicity makes life so much deeper, refreshing and joyful. I hope that this blog will help others see the benefits of living simply.

Day 1158 – Padonia Park Club Fall Tasting

Last night, we had a booth set up at the Padonia Park Club Fall Tasting. We LOVE coming out to the tastings! I love meeting new brides, Bret loves the chocolate fountain. πŸ™‚ I also invited one of my previous brides, Lauren Summers!! She was such a great help! It was fun to say, and this is Lauren, that’s her picture over there!! πŸ™‚

I was really happy with how it went too! I made several appointments and met some really awesome brides! I had a giveaway too! The winner will be announced at the bottom. But first, here’s a few of my favorite parts of the evening! (Check out all the pictures here!)

This was the setup in the pavilion! LOVE the fall colors!!

These were just gorgeous! So many beautiful flowers, but these were my fav.

And my FAVORITE table! Ravens colors baby!! (note: we got to catch the last part of the game after the show! WOO! Go Ravens!)

I think this was my favorite part of the evening….the sparkly drapes! I couldn’t stop looking at them! Good thing our table was facing the other way! This was provided by R&R Events!

And lastly….I had a drawing for a $50 Victoria’s Secret gift card!

And the winner was….Jeenah P! Yay!!!! πŸ™‚

Day 1156 – One Year as a Full-Time Wedding Photographer Down, How Did It Go??

Today marks the anniversary of my last day working another job and my first day as a full-time wedding photographer. What a year it’s been!

I photographed so many wonderful moments and people since that day. I’ve been on lots of great adventures. I’ve been able to drop everything and meet with a friend when they needed someone (this is one of my favorite benefits). I’ve had high points and really low points. I have learned SO much it’s ridiculous. The biggest theme of the last year has been – God is in control, God does things differently than I do and the sooner I learn that, the happier I’ll be.

I could go on for hours about all the awesome things, but if you’ve been reading the blog for any amount of time, you’ve already heard about them! So, since pictures say more than I ever could. Here’s a few of my favorite moments from this year.


Day 793 – Leaving on a Jet Plane


Day 846 – Second Shooting With Shawna


Day 854 – Baltimore Maryland Wedding Photographers – Tilton Wedding


Day 920 – Road Trip Adventures


Day 1042 – Enchanted Forest Styled Wedding Shoot


Day 1057 – Hiking Old Rag and My First Backpacking Trip!


Day 1058 – My First Night in the Shenandoah Back Country


Day 1067 – Trip to DC


Day 1092 – Lessons Learned from Stedman Graham (Oprah’s Man)


Day 1107 – Bel Air Maryland Engagement Session


Day 1121 – 61 and a Half Years of Marriage


Day 1149 – The Best Day We’ve Had So Far

Day 1154 – The Greatest Hummus Recipe Ever or I Love Pinterest

I’m crazy about Pinterest. I use it mostly for fun, to get ideas and share things with others. I found a great pin a while back and finally got to try it out!

We were signed up to take snack to our bible study on Wednesday and when trying to figure out what to take, I looked at my “Foods to Try” board….and tried not to look at my “Foods I Shouldn’t Try, but REALLY Want To!!!” board! (Man I have some good lookin’ food on that board!)

Anyways, I saw the veggie one and I knew that’s what I wanted to make. I also made two batches of hummus to go along with it (recipe at the bottom). One was Old Bay (and THE best hummus I’ve ever made, hands down) and the other was Tomato Basil, which was also very good.

I also got some fruit and Bret put together a really fun display!

And now, the BEST hummus recipe I’ve found. It’s a little messy to make because of some of the ingredients, so I recommend making it right next to your sink, if you can.

15 oz can chickpeas
1/2 cup tahini*
5 tbsp oil
1/4 cup lemon juice
4 medium garlic cloves
1/2 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper
1/8 tsp ground red pepper
1 tbsp oil (optional)

Drain and rinse chickpeas, reserving 1/2 cup of the liquid. Combine all ingredients in a food processor (or blender**). Process until mixture is smooth. If mixture is too thick, add 1-2 tbsp of reserved chickpea liquid***. Move to serving dish and add 1 tbsp oil, if desired.

Old Bay Hummus
Same as above, minus salt, pepper or ground red pepper. I added about 2-3 tbsp of Old Bay instead. This is a “to taste” ingredient. I put in a bit…then poured in some more…thought it was too much…but after I tasted it, realized it was perfect. If you are from Baltimore, you know that there is no such thing as “too much Old Bay.”

Tomato Basil Hummus
Same as above, minus salt, pepper or ground red pepper. I added one full tomato and a bunch of basil. I used dried basil, but I would imagine fresh basil would be tasty! Now, since I used a whole tomato, it made the mixture a little watery, so I just opened another can of chickpeas and added about 1/4-1/3 of the can.

* find this near the peanut butter in the store. I have purchased it at Wal-Mart. This is also one of the messy ingredients.
** I have NOT had luck making a double batch in the blender
*** I typically will add 2 tbsp of the chickpea liquid at the beginning. I’ve also found that if you drain the liquid into a measuring cup (I use a 3 cup), it’s much easier (and cleaner) when adding more to the hummus.

I’d love to know how it works out for you! Share your hummus story below!