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About 365 days of marriage

I started this blog in April of 2011. At the time, Bret and I were wedding photographers and it was a way to share how marriage is more about the day to day and so much more than the wedding day itself. For about 5 years, I blogged about the joys and sorrows of the Christian walk, marriage, work, family and friends. I’ve blogged every day since a few weeks after I started. In May of 2015, we photographed our last wedding. Now, I have become passionate about simplicity, particularly in marriage, Christianity, business, travel and life. For a number of reasons, we have become minimalists. I’ve found that having simplicity makes life so much deeper, refreshing and joyful. I hope that this blog will help others see the benefits of living simply.

Day 1240 – Do Not Neglect The Gift You Have…

A few days ago I came across this verse:

“Do not neglect the gift you have…” 1 Timothy 4:14a

This is always such a great reminder for me in regards to my photography. It’s not an easy life…being a free-lance photographer (or any type of free-lancer)…but is the life that I believe God has created me for. There are times when I really don’t want to take pictures. There are times when I want to just sit back with everyone else and be an observer too. To capture images in my memory, not my camera.

I’ll admit, there are times when I “forget” my camera on purpose…and then I regret it. One time was a wedding I attended as a guest. As you can imagine, these are very rare. I wanted to really enjoy myself, so the camera was left at home. As it turned out, we were seated with the bride’s father. At one point, whether a dance or toast, the father started to cry. Their wedding photographer didn’t see it…which I can completely understand…I personally would have missed it if I was shooting. But I’m sitting there, witnessing this beautiful moment, and wishing I had my camera.

There are times when I think it’s ok for me to “neglect the gift.” A few days ago, I was outside walking with my brother and I looked up, saw a hawk flying around and then I looked closer….there was WHITE on that hawk! Holy crap that’s a bald eagle! I watched it fly and it was awesome. It was the first time I’d seen one “in real life” and not in a zoo. I did force myself to actually drink in this moment, because I probably couldn’t get to my camera in time. I gave myself about 2-4 minutes….and then I took off….RAN to get my camera….but not fast enough…and that was ok.

I think there are times I neglect the gift because I forget that not everyone can do this. Here’s a good example of this with another field.

My friend Susan is starting a business. She’ll be doing a number of things with her business, but mostly helping people declutter their homes, decorate their homes, etc. In conversations we’ve had, she’ll have an idea, something she just mentions in passing and I say, wow, that’s awesome! I never thought about it like that! And most of the time it surprises her…because her gift is so deeply rooted in her, she doesn’t realize what she knows are things not everyone knows.

Ah, so wonderful that God doesn’t leave us where we are…He gently brings us back in focus (tee hee, a little pun) when we need to be.

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Day 1238 – The Story Behind My Wedding Dress

When I first got engaged, I thought I was going to wear my mom’s wedding dress. I had tried it on so many times as a teen/young adult. Even though it was worn in 1977, it was still something I really liked. One of my mom’s friends encouraged her to make sure this was truly “My Dress.” I thought about it and it really wasn’t. It was my mom’s dress. Though, I did like how my dad smiled when he saw me in it.

So I wanted to go look at dresses as soon as possible! It was a last minute search and only my friend Marcy (who wasn’t even a bridesmaid at the time….though, I did ask her very shortly after this experience!) was available to go. We drove up to the David’s Bridal in York and started our search. Since I was getting married in the backyard, I thought the more “destination/beach” wedding dress was the direction I wanted to go.

I tried on a few…

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It was fun, I liked the dresses. But there wasn’t that “moment.” Stacey, who was helping me find my dress, at this point said….ok, I found a dress for you…it’s totally different from the others you’ve tried on so far, but I think you’ll like it…

I started to cry in the dressing room as she was lacing it up….

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It was perfect with the veil and tiara.

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My dad had fun with the veil later.

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And the dress still made him smile.

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Here’s the full dress…..

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