Day 1501 – 7 Ways I’ve Changed To Live A Better Life

You know I’ve had a lot of life changing things happen over the last month or so…today I want to tell you the changes I’ve made that have really helped to give me a better life and business.

1. Using My Fitness Pal regularly.

I tried it a few months ago…and it really helped! In my pride I thought, oh, it’s cool, I got this. Yea, after a few months of enjoying food and drink to excess, I don’t got this. Trying on clothes the other day really drove this point home! What I’ve loved about it this time around is how it’s helped motivate me to workout! When you log workouts, it gives you more calories to intake! I can also see how I’m doing and know when I can splurge. Like last night when we had decaf coffee with Irish cream on the deck in the moonlight!

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2. Making sure I have a clean desk…and room.

When it looks likes this….

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I get so little work done! I get distracted so much easier. Having only the thing(s) I’m working on out on the desk helps me keep focus and get the work done. I mean, look at this! Doesn’t it make you want to work?!

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3. Asking “Will what I’m doing make me money?”

This one has been HUGE for me. It keeps me focused and only spending time on those things (answering emails, making phone calls, etc.) If I do those things first, I can focus more on the things that don’t necessarily bring in the money. For example, you want to make sure you have a clean, spell checked website…but if you’re spending 20 hours of your week re-doing things that are just “making it pretty” you’ve wasted your time. I am MOST guilty of this! Whew! The time I’ve spent updating my website. Shesh!

4. Finding a system to keep my tasks in my face.

There a million ways to list your tasks and ensure you accomplish them. There are apps, there are programs, you can write them down on a piece of paper and cross them off. I’ve struggled with this a bit, always trying to find the best (and most motivating!) way. I started one this week and I’m actually pretty excited about it!

I bought a new calendar this weekend…because I needed 2014….but also because I LOVE office supplies. Oh my gosh, back to school is my poison! I have to stay away from Target and their 1 cent notebooks! (Side note:, Bret did not have to buy a SINGLE notebook while he was in school because of my extensive notebook stash….though, I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing…)

Anyways, I found this great calendar with month breakdowns and weekly/daily breakdowns. 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. with 15 minute breakdowns. It’s enough to make an OCD person like me jump up and down! I filled out Monday on Sunday night….I was very detailed…even including things like showering and working out. Bret started student teaching on Monday, and I had plans of getting up with him around 6:30/7. When the alarm went off and I felt the pull to snooze (one of my BIGGEST struggles), I thought about my timeline for the day and thought, you know, I’m going to get up because this will put me ahead of schedule. It was a huge motivator for me.

I think it’s important to do this the night before, namely because I didn’t last night and I slept later than I should have (not TOO much though).

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5. Moving my devotion location.

I used to do my devotions at my desk, in front of the computer. It worked for a while, it did. But it’s sooooo much easier to get distracted with the computer and all of its notifications right there in your face.

I’m now sitting on a couch in our room and it’s been great.

6. Using a devotion reading plan on my phone.

One of my friends shared a reading plan she started on YouVersion/bible.com and I was interested. I’m on day 11 out of 12 now and it’s been great! The app will do pop up reminders as well as show you only what you need to read that day. So, if you’re reading Psalm 119:30-34, it only shows those verses. It’s also easy to navigate through your readings. You can even adjust if you’ve fallen behind! Today SHOULD be day 15! While, I don’t recommend pushing it back and using that as an excuse…it doesn’t make you feel bad when you miss a day. Can I get an amen on yearly reading plans?!

7. Watching/listening to videos while on the treadmill.

Since I’ve been trying to be more diligent with working out AND learning about business, I’ve started to find videos totaling the amount of time I plan on working out, and watching them while I’m on the treadmill. I did that today and it was really great! lol, I think it’s more to distract me from the walking/running though. 😉 Ah well, two birds, one stone.

So what have you found to help you life a better life?

Day 1456 – Life Lessons From The Sandlot

Last night, we did something pretty darn cool.

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Our friends, Matt and Emily, invited us over to their home for movies under the stars! They transformed their backyard into the coolest movie theater I’ve ever been to! Complete with multiple flavors of popcorn, a basket of candy and old school soda bottles!

We watched The Sandlot. What a walk down memory lane! I recently realized that this movie is TWENTY years old. As if I didn’t feel “old” already! Anyways, it definitely holds up! Such a fun movie!

While I was watching it though, I realized it had a really good life lesson in it. Just face your fears.

Think about it (I’m assuming all of my readers have seen the movie…or won’t mind some spoilers…), they lose the ball, they build up The Beast to such a degree that any time he even touches the ball, they scream. I didn’t realize HOW much screaming there was! They try all kinds of crazy things to try and fix this problem. Each idea is more ridiculous than the idea before it. The whole situation finally ends when everything comes crashing down around them. Then The Beast’s owner simply states, well, why didn’t you just knock on the door??

How many times are we in situations where we create a huge headache for ourselves, digging deeper and deeper, working harder and harder…when all we needed to do was “knock on the door?”

So, whatever you’re going through…have you tried “knocking on the door” yet?

Day 1329 – A Year Later, I Am A Completely Different Person

On this day last year, I wrote this in my journal…

“What is so wrong with me?! Why am I so weighted down? Renew my trust. Renew my joy in my work. Give me a wedding! Help me to do what I need to do to succeed. I want to bring you glory. I want to dance with joy.”

I’m not going to lie. Last January through February/early March was one of the hardest times of my life. The “wow” glow of being a full-time photographer had gone away. My previously booked weddings were shot, edited and completed. The dust of the busy fall had settled and I realized this was real life now. We had some tough financial times. There was only one wedding on the books for 2012. We were really rather hopeless about things.

But I continued to look to God. My prayers changed from “Give me a wedding or give me money” to “help me to bring you glory.” It’s amazing how much things can change with just a little different perspective. When I look for God’s glory in a situation, no matter what, I don’t look at the circumstances. When I desire what he wants for my life, I don’t question the methods he uses. When I let go of my control of everything, leave it in his safe hands, I am free to only be concerned about how can I serve him.

I look back at all of this (journaling is a FANTASTIC way to grow and see how far you’ve come!) and think about where I am now, I am just blown away.

Now, I have 7 weddings on the books and just this week, I’ve had several inquiries AND a few good leads. I am absolutely floored by this. I am blessed beyond words.

But, I feel much more success in the following…

We got some bad financial news this morning. It’s not the worst thing in the world, but it is certainly not what I would have chosen. I started to have a negative reaction when Bret told me…and he caught it right away….and asked, “When is God good?” It stopped me right away. Even though I just wanted to cry “When will it ever get better? When will we not have to deal with all of this anymore???” My dear husband reminded me where to place my hope. And he’s right. I’m so thankful for that. Where last year, we would have been down and angry at each other for at least a full day or more about something like this…now, it’s rarely more than a few minutes. What glorious grace!

“He not only will deliver you but in doing so will impart a lesson that you will never forget. And in days to come, you will return to the truth of it through singing. You will be unable to ever thank God enough for doing exactly what He has done.” Streams in the Desert, March 1

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Day 1284 – I’m Just A Lump Of Clay

So, you know a few days ago, I went through an amazing transformation. Under the hand of very skilled artists and in a garment full of sparkles

I went from this….

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To this…

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I was thinking about how awesome it is to completely give yourself up to someone’s vision for you. Someone who has a skill you don’t have, who can see the rough product they’re working with and make something you’d NEVER imagine for yourself. And I realized how much this relates to our relationship with Christ.

When we give our lives to Him, we’re essentially saying, I can’t do this on my own, here’s my life. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this true in my life. As I’ve been typing up my journals, I’m seeing patterns and how God has used different circumstances and trials to mold me into what He wants me to be. I gain the most growth when I say, you know what God, I have NO idea what I’m doing, you take the wheel! If I sat there under the brushes and hair spray and said, um, put this here, don’t do that there….they’d look at me like I was crazy. I have NO idea what I’m talking about. We even had a conversation on the drive home about doing a makeup class for makeup dummies. I seriously have NO idea what to do with my hair or makeup, it’s ridiculous! And that’s why my transformation was so shocking! That’s why people couldn’t recognize me. I hope that my life looks like that…that I’ve given up MY input on what GOD should do so much that I am half as beautiful on the inside as I was in that wedding gown.

So readers, be the clay.

Day 1228 – Three Years Ago, I Never Thought It Would Work Out

This time three years ago, Bret and I were driving home from our first wedding rehearsal. I had asked him to help me out with a wedding because my brother (previous second shooter) couldn’t make it. Looking back, I have to laugh at myself and how I reacted…but…here goes.

We photographed the rehearsal. Got a few nice shots. I felt ready to go for the wedding and we headed to the car to make our way to the rehearsal dinner. Well….Bret and I got into a “discussion” about a few things….he wanted to ask a few more questions of the pastor….and I got upset…I look back and just shake my head at 2009 Jennilyn….I mean, come on dude, it was his first wedding! Anyways, we went back in so he could ask a few more things. And then, there was a heated “discussion” on the drive to the rehearsal dinner and it was suggested that maybe this wasn’t such a good idea. Thankfully, I NEEDED Bret to work for me the next day. I don’t remember if we were still “discussing” things as we drove to the girl’s getting ready….but I do remember when we were photographing the ceremony. During the vows, my husband of 133 days looked over at me across the church, mouthed “I love you” and blew me a kiss. During the reception, I saw something AWESOME happening on the other side of the room, but I just didn’t think I’d make it….as I was struggling though the crowd, I see Bret’s flash shine and my heart smiled. Ever since that day, we haven’t had another “discussion.” 🙂

So, three years later, I am SO glad that it worked out…us working together….he has made me a better business owner, photographer and boss. I am so grateful.

He also takes me out for ice cream!

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