Day 2684 – My Next Book Is About Cross Country Travel And I Need Your Help!

I’m very happy to report that I have finally made some major progress on my book! It has become more of a devotional than anything else. My manuscript with with an editor/reviewer as we speak! The next step is finding a cover designer (any recommendations, pass them my way!) and then all the copyrighting/ISBN etc business and you’ll be able to buy my book on Amazon! It’s so weird to be this close! Eeeep!

If you haven’t picked up yet, I’m big into dreaming and doing the next thing even while working on another. So! I already have my next book in the queue! I will be writing on cross country road trips! I’ve obviously got a ton of material to work with and a bunch of experience. Bonus – I LOVE to talk about it! Every few weeks, I’ll get a message from someone asking for tips. I end up putting in a good 30-45 minutes giving them advice….and it never feels that long. I’m really pumped to write this book!

Here’s how you can help me! Tell me your questions about planning a cross country trip. I want all your questions. Crazy questions, serious questions, questions you don’t know if you should ask or not.

Hopefully, it will inspire more people to go to places like this…

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Day 2522 – What’s Your Favorite Audiobook?

I can’t believe we’re leaving for our cross country trip NEXT week! Time has really flown by this spring/summer already. So! I need your help preparing. One of the things that help the miles melt away is a great audiobook. I had a whole stack of potentials, but I listened to a few minutes and almost fell asleep in my chair – not good for driving. I did find two great ones read by their authors, but the total time is only about 12 hours. What are your favorite audiobooks? Think the ones that have a great reader. Maybe even different readers. The first year we drove, I listened to the Hunger Games. That book got me through a LOT of the trip!

p.s. Thanks to my Facebook friends who have answered already! 🙂

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Day 2463 – Trying To Procrastinate

I hit my lunch time slump and decided to procrastinate and read. Funny enough, I got a book out of the library on just that topic – Procrastination On Purpose. I started reading it, not really sure what type of book it would be. The more I read and learn about business, the more critical I am of fluff. I will stop reading a book, listening to a webinar, following someone if they’re all fluff. Keep the “you can do it!” stuff, please. Give me the meat and potatoes. As my friend and amazing business woman Mara Glazer would say – “Cut the crap!”

As I jumped in, I found myself taking notes very quickly. The way I read books (if I don’t own them) is to copy quotes that speak to me, are good advice and I generally want to remember. By page 10, I’d already written down 5 things. A few highlights:

“Priority dilution – delaying the day’s most important activities by consciously or unconsciously allowing our attention to shift to less important tasks.”

“The most successful people I knew never complained or even spoke about how busy they were.”

“Your problem is not that you are too busy, your problem is that you don’t own your situation.”

“You are not a victim. You are in charge. You are capable. You are powerful enough to decide what you will and won’t do with your time.”

Already, in the first few pages, this guy is cutting the crap. I found myself thinking, oh, yea, my super long to do list today was not because my life is so hard and I’m sooooo busy….it’s my own darn fault. I was reminded of binge watching 7 nearly 50 minute episodes in two days, hours and hours playing Disney Magic Kingdoms and Minions Paradise AND camping that brought me here. We’ll see if I finish the book but it was a great reminder to this procrastinator.

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Day 2420 – How To Actually Get Everything Done – or – To Do List Systems – or – My 2016 Goals And How I Will Meet Them

One of the things I love to learn about is organizing systems and how to actually get your work done. I’m not big on “New Year’s Resolutions” but I did take some time to create goals for myself for the coming year…even though that didn’t happen until mid-January….and I haven’t really started actively implementing them until the last few weeks.

I approached creating my goals with my bible. I had a few ideas in mind for what I wanted out of the year but God gave me better ones.

Here are my personal 2016 goals:
Get “away” with God more often (Luke 22:39)
Declare how much God has done (Luke 8:39)
Don’t mentally plan out conversations (Luke 21:12-19)
Love others more deeply (John 13:34-35)
Fill my heart with more of God’s word (Matthew 12:34b)
Be more childlike in faith and life (Matthew 18:4)
Be more giving (Matthew 5:42)

These were things God spoke to my heart to grow in this year. Some are easy to track and see progress. I can look at my checkbook and see if I’m being more giving. I can have Bret quiz me and see if I remember more verses than before. Others are harder to track. But they are my goals.

I have some business and personal goals ranging from learning more systems and streamlining more things to going away with Bret and reading 20 fiction books.

Let me give you the biggest mindset shift and biggest secret I’ve recently learned about managing my life and to do’s.

There is no set system and it will constantly change.

This idea seriously changed my life. It’s easy for me to try a new system (like a big board and using post it notes under headers or a sticker check off or a rewards system) but then fall short after using it for a month…or a week…or a few days. There’s a perfectionist/completionist side of me that wants something set up and not have to worry about it. So, again, this idea was music to my ears and really rather freeing.

Another big change for me was realizing I could create a hodge podge system that worked for ME. It has allowed me to pick and choose what works for me and toss what isn’t at any given time.

Here’s what does my current hodge podge looks like.

I printed out my goals and put them in prominent places

I read about the importance of putting your goals out front and center in Mind Hacking by Sir John Hargrave. Specifically, he mentioned putting your goals in the bathroom. So, I have my goals hanging up so I can see them when I’m sitting on my throne. If I’m working from home, I’m seeing my goals a lot. I also have a print out on my to do list clipboard.

Master to do list

For years now, I’ve had a master to do list on a clipboard. It used to be about 10 pages long…but that’s not really practical. I reformatted it down to one page, a layout of the current week, and various more pressing, but not super time sensitive to do’s at the bottom. This is where I list out what day of marriage it is. It’s also in a landscape format because a week fits better that way.

Work and personal to do’s

I use Google calendar for organizing my to do’s for one client, Asana for the other client and Outlook/iCal for my personal to do’s and events. On Outlook I have recurring reminders to pay certain bills, renew my library books, check availability of books, etc. Weekly, I’ll check my Outlook/iCal and redo my to do list.

reminders

I’ve been using an iPhone for several years now, but only JUST started using reminders. What I love about reminders is that they will stay on my lock screen until I’ve taken care of them. I used to use tasks/reminders with iCal, but if I didn’t take care of it, it was gone. I love that I can tell Siri to remind me to do something on such and such day. It’s also great using the location reminders so I don’t forget things like feeding the meter or taking something with me when I leave.

Goal check offs/tracker sheets

This is new for me. I created checklists for my goals. So once a week, when I’m redoing the master to do list, I’m filling in each week/month on the checklists. I’m noting how many books I read that week, how many times I worked out, etc.

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Daily to do list

This is brand spankin’ new to my system, meaning TODAY new! Last night while falling asleep, I had the idea of re-framing my to do list. Instead of saying something like – post on Facebook, do devotions, follow up with this friend or that, I list the task under my goal. So my to do list today is on a white note pad. I write: fill my heart w/God’s word/read whole bible and underline it. Then I add the tasks – journal – read a few chapters. Under the goal “create more systems/streamline processes” I have – sign up for trial for CRM – go through iPhone. (lol, I’ve become OCD about having all of my apps on one screen! I’m also trying to be good about backing up my photos to my photo proofing site.

So there you have it! I realize my system might be crazy overwhelming and seemingly discombobulated, but it makes sense to me, I get things done and I adapt/change/delete as necessary. 🙂

What system or systems work for you to keep track of everything?

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