Day 2178 – What We Can Learn From Waiting

Yesterday, we flew from Maryland to California for a summer visit with Bret’s family. I am SO thankful that God has us in a season of abundance so that we can visit more.

We arrived in Las Vegas in route to our California end stop. We had a scheduled layover of about six hours. I was thankful for not being too tired this time around, but it was still a tough wait. I had some Starbucks to help over the first hump. I felt like young Anakin in his pod racer when he says “It’s working!!!!”

I spent the hours eating, reading, catching up on games and listening to podcasts. Finally, the time came to move to the gate and then we boarded. The new airline we tried has a great boarding method….if you don’t have a carry on, you board first….it really helps to get the plane boarded.

We sit down, start reading and wait. We pull out from the gate and stop….and wait….then there’s an announcement that the breaks are hot, so we have to wait some more….then another announcement that it’s not cooling, so we have to go back to the gate and deboard. We spent probably another hour or so sitting at the gate (thankfully very air conditioned!) Finally, we’re told we’re changing planes. Woo hoo!! We ended up waiting another 20 minutes or so at the gate before boarding.

All told, we were delayed 3 hours. What was a six hour layover, became 8. It’s a shame I don’t gamble.

But here’s what I learned. Sometimes waiting isn’t bad at all. The three hours flew by, because we started chatting with the girl sitting next to us. We chatted with other passengers. We joked, we learned about each other. Sure, some of the passengers were really mad, wanting refunds and complained to people who couldn’t change anything. (What can they do about a plane that’s hot in Las Vegas in June? I mean, really?) But for the most part, while frustrated that we had to wait, everyone was pretty optimistic and just dealt with the card we were given. If we hadn’t had this big delay, we never would have chatted with the lady sitting next to us. We shared stories about rock climbing and hiking. She was a ranger and we chatted about what she does. It was so fun! It was also cool to see how a situation like this brings a group of people together. We weathered the storm together and came out stronger. We connected on a personal level that wouldn’t have existed if we weren’t delayed.

The next time you’re met with having to wait, think about what you’re actually getting out of the delay.

Oh, and get Starbucks, always get Starbucks.

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Day 2174 – Fun Thing To Do in Maryland This Summer! (Psst, It Involves Ice Cream!)

A few days back, I heard about the Maryland’s Best Ice Cream Trail! There are eight different creameries all around Maryland on the trail! Last night, we made our first stop at South Mountain Creamery in Middletown! I had some caramel type of ice cream and holy cow, it was SO good! We also bought some fresh milk and AMAZING veggie cream cheese. *drool*

Let me know if you attempt/complete the full trail!!

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Day 2173 – How To Meet Your Goals – or – Stickers Are Always The Answer

I’m a big dreamer. I’m a big talker. I love increasing my knowledge and talking about what I want to do.

But I have a big struggle – execution. I mentioned to Bret the other day how I feel very passionate about my book, but have been really struggling to actually sit down and write it. He made a comment that really “woke me up” and caused me to try something new.

He said you have to have goals and a laid out plan. You have to be told exactly what to do. Thankfully, I can tell myself what to do.

Let’s take a walk back to kindergarten….and sticker charts.

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I went through the list of things I’d like to do during the day. I’m not going to tell you what they are because I just listened to a TED talk about how bad it is to share your goals. So! You’re only seeing the sticker side! Yesterday was my first day and it went REALLY well. (I wasn’t tracking Sunday, so that’s why there’ are so many frowny faces.) There was only one square I didn’t do…but it wasn’t a “have” to do square. See, I’m also going into this with a “some of these things WILL get done because they’re already a part of my routine” and there are things that “I want to do daily eventually, but understand it won’t happen overnight, so I won’t beat myself up about it.”

I’ve also started tracking exactly what I’m doing all day. I track my time for a client of mine because I’m paid by the hour. It’s crazy how “on the clock” (in a good way!) it makes me feel. I am more energized to work when I’ve written down a start time. I’m hoping the same will be true tracking everything I do all day. I also hope to find areas to grow and things I can cut out.

Do you have weird and/or fun ways to increase your productivity?

Day 2168 – How To Get A Workout With Books

One of the things that I love about Bret is that he can come up with some fantastic workouts that don’t require a gym. He gave me one a few months back that’s pretty easy to do and cheap too!

Find something heavy and do:
30 deadlifts with heavy item
30 bent over rows with heavy item
30 hip raises with body weight only

It only took me a few minutes.

So what was my heavy item? A bag of books! You can also take a peek at a few of the books I’m currently working my way through! I held the bag from the bottom to do the workout.

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Day 2161 – Tigi’s Ethiopian Restaurant

A few days back, Bret and I tried out a new restaurant. I’m pretty sure it was the first time I had Ethiopian food. Oh my goodness, it was delicious!!! I love eating with my hands, so this didn’t disappoint!

If you’re looking for something new in Ellicott City, check out Tigi’s!

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You can kind of get an idea of scale with Bret’s hand…but this tray was about the size of a pizza tray!

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