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About 365 days of marriage

I started this blog in April of 2011. At the time, Bret and I were wedding photographers and it was a way to share how marriage is more about the day to day and so much more than the wedding day itself. For about 5 years, I blogged about the joys and sorrows of the Christian walk, marriage, work, family and friends. I’ve blogged every day since a few weeks after I started. In May of 2015, we photographed our last wedding. Now, I have become passionate about simplicity, particularly in marriage, Christianity, business, travel and life. For a number of reasons, we have become minimalists. I’ve found that having simplicity makes life so much deeper, refreshing and joyful. I hope that this blog will help others see the benefits of living simply.

Day 2293 – Are You A “Domesticated Christian?” – or – Are You Watered Down?

I recently listened to a sermon by John Piper called The Plundering of Your Property and the Power of Hope. He used a phrase – “Domesticated Christian” and it really struck a chord with me. The sermon was about how easy American Christians have had things. We have not been persecuted like other countries. And until recently, it’s been a good thing to be a Christian. Admired even. It’s a great sermon, and I recommend you listen to it.

So what does a domesticated Christian look like?

I see it as a Christian who doesn’t take God at His Word. There are a LOT of hard things in the bible. There are a lot of things that we can write off and ignore. But that’s not what we’re called to do.

It may not be easy to hear – “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5:28
But it’s a very clear message – don’t play around with thinking about those who aren’t your spouse. One way Bret and I have tried to take God at His Word in this area is not watching a movie or TV show with nudity.

It’s not easy to hear – “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” Romans 3:23.
We like to think of ourselves as “good people” as “not so bad.” But that’s not what scripture says. It says we’ve ALL sinned.

It’s not easy to hear – “Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.‘” John 14:6
No one likes the message that faith in Jesus is the only way to be saved from hell. We like to hear all roads lead to God. We like to hear, believe want you want. But that’s not what scripture says.

It’s not easy to hear – “The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers.” 1 Peter 4:7
We want to hear, it’s all good, go ahead – drink and be merry. But that’s not what God says. I had to take this verse seriously in my life. I had to admit that I could not be sober minded and drink. Over a year ago, I finally admitted I had a problem and quit drinking for good. I intend on telling the full story about that in the coming weeks on the blog, so stay tuned. I took God at His Word and my life has been changed.

This idea of domesticated makes me think of a wild animal that loses all of it’s survival instincts. I hate to break it to you friends, but this world is a vicious vicious place. We have to be serious about our faith in Christ and be aware of the dangers around us. We also need to be ready tell others of the amazing good news of our faith. This world is a terrible place, but God has given us a source of pure joy and hope.

So ask yourself, are you domesticated in your faith? Has your faith been watered down? Have you let the world dictate your belief system or is it God’s Word?

Maybe not one of my easier or more fun posts, but it has been pressing on my heart and I had to share.

“I can’t keep eternity out of my mind. Life is short and eternity is long. Very long. It is a long time to regret a wasted life.” John Piper – Life as a Vapor

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Day 2291 – How To Read More/Listen To More Podcasts/And All Around Get More Done

A few days back, I watched a great video on FightMediocrity. This guys does animations on books and I’ve really enjoyed learning from books I may not read on my own. One of the suggestions he shared from a book was playing audio books at a higher speed. So if you have a 10 hour book, on speed 2x and a half an hour commute, you’ve listened to one book in a week. Today I tried it out on a podcast and holy smokes, it worked. I listened to an hour podcast in half an hour and I still processed what I was said – faster. I did pause it at one point to write down a note and, no lie, I felt like I was writing in molasses. I felt SO SLOW! But it was a great experiment in fast learning.

It’s a lot like Spritz that will allow you to read websites faster. This is something I really need to use more, especially when reading articles and blog posts online. You can set the speed and rewind if necessary. I just read an article at 250 WPM and I was done in about a minute and a half.

But I will say, there are some things I LOVE learning slow. Nothing beats holding an actual book and turning the pages. But if it’s on a topic that I know really well and will repeat a lot, why not use a tool that will help me get the new knowledge faster?

Have you found any tools that help you learn faster?

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p.s. This is an old image, but a great book!

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