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Day 1973 – My View For The Next Few Days
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Day 1972 – That Time I Almost Lost My Ring…
If you’ve been reading my blog for any amount of time, you know Bret has lost four rings. He’s currently on 5, 6 and 7 (it’s a three in one ring). I’ve given a hard time about this over the years, but I really don’t mind when he loses them. The rings are cheap (no more than $30) and our marriage is not based on the ring on his finger. And hey, it’s given me a TON of blogging material!
There have been a few times I’ve taken a picture with my rings for the blog and ALMOST forgot to put my rings back on. I think my favorite almost forgotten rings was when they were hanging on a flower at a restaurant. Doh!
Well folks, last night, I almost lost my engagement ring! I had just second shot/assisted with one of my favorite photographers, Robin Shotola of Shotola Photography & Design. We picked up Krispy Kreme doughnuts on the way back (HOT from the oven, be still my heart!) and I was taking a picture of my rings on top of my coffee cup (cute little heart shape on the top caught my attention). Robin was pumping gas and I put the coffee on my lap and the rings on top. Something got bumped and my rings went flying. I got the wedding band off the seat, but my poor engagement ring fell into the deep recesses that are the side of a car seat. I finally fished out the ring and took a picture on TOP of the car. 🙂 I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to have a scare like that with my ring(s). Though, it would’ve been fun/nice to get a new ring set!

Day 1971 – Tips For Saving Money And Paying Off Your Debt
I got a request for some tips, so here you go! Some are easy, some are really hard. But if you’re serious about paying off your debt, the temporary difficulty will be worth it in the end. One of our favorites sayings is roughly, live now like people couldn’t believe so in the future you can live a life people couldn’t dream of.
Mint.com I’m sure there are a ton of apps like this, but this is the one we use. It syncs up with all of your bank accounts and credit cards. It can take a little work to get things set up, but once it is, it’s fantastic. My advice with this is to set it up RIGHT NOW. It starts tracking from the day you sign up (when last I checked). Then in a month or two, take a peek at what your habits are. I would be willing to bet you spend more on things than you thought. When I looked at our spending on gas, I was absolutely shocked! It was at least $100+ I thought we spent. You can set up budgets and notifications for when you go over or are getting close to exceeding that budget.
Create a budget One thing that helped us was creating a budget for the current year and the next. I have an extensive spreadsheet that includes all incomes and bills. I can quickly see our current standing. Over those three and a half years, I think we lived at the “going in the hole” 3 months out about 90% of the time. Bonus tip – you get 26 pays (if you have a typical bi-weekly pay) a year, so that’s two pays you probably aren’t thinking about in your budgeting.
Coupons There are a TON of ways you can save with coupons! I’m not a HUGE couponer, but I picked up a few things. First, Target (and other businesses, I’m sure) take coupons from their website AND manufacturer coupons. If you can wait for a sale, some of the prices are crazy good. They have deals where if you buy X of a product, you get a gift card…even better. In this same vein, I just signed up for an app to earn credits towards rebates, it’s called Ibotta. I haven’t used it yet, but from what I saw, it would be a great thing to add.
Change your diet One of the things we had to sacrifice for a little while was cutting out organic foods. I will say, this was the first thing to change when we had more breathing room. You can add new recipes into the mix…there are tons of random combinations that are super cheap. (Start with a Hamburger helper meal, add canned chicken and a few bags of frozen veggies. I made one recently and I think it worked out to be about $1 per serving…)
Stop going out to eat There are no excuses on this one. Just don’t do it. If this is something that’s important to you, add it into your budget…but only do this AFTER you’re paying down your bills. Take the food you made from a random combination above to work. Hungry on the drive home? Be hungry until you get home….or pack snacks for the car so you’re not tempted.
Compare the purchase to how long you’d have to work for it Gotta have that new gaming system? New shoes? If you think about it in terms of your hourly wage, this becomes a much easier battle. If you’re making $10 an hour, you’d have to work over 40 hours for a PS4.
Stop giving gifts…or seriously cut back This is where it gets hard. I know Christmas is coming up and you want to give those you love gifts…but this can be a serious drain on your cash flow. Honestly, one of the best gifts you can give most people these days is your time. As “cliche” as it sounds, give coupons for your time. “Movie night at my place,” “Making you dinner at your place,” etc. We stayed home a LOT during that time and we had people over.
Use the library You can get most books and movies from the library. Make use of the request feature. I’ve seen a lot of recent DVD releases through the library. I’ve probably saved about $30 over the last 6 months alone not renting from RedBox anymore. Sure, it’s only a buck and change….but that adds up. If there’s something you really want to see, put in your request as soon as you can. I currently have a calendar reminder to check on a few titles when they’re released.
Combine driving trips as much as possible Don’t get the groceries when you feel like it. Don’t return the movie now. Think through your to-do list of drives….what can you do all together? What can wait? Drive with your spouse/etc whenever possible. This can be hard if you have to wait, but again, be looking at the long term. If you have to sit and wait for something (maybe you and your spouse are taking the car into the shop while running errands), take one of those books from the library! 🙂 We love shopping at Aldi’s and Big Lots for the great prices…but up until February, we didn’t have one close by, so we would wait until Sundays after church since it was on the way home.
Pay as much as you can on the bills With the money you’re saving, attack your smallest bills and/or the highest interest rate cards first. Bonus tip – pay once a week on credits cards to keep the interest down.
Do reward yourself, from time to time This is really hard stuff. I know. But you do want to reward yourself as you go. Add rewards into your budget too. We did go out to eat a few times over the years, and each time it was such a blessing and so much fun. Make sure you shut off the “we don’t have the money for this” side of your brain! If you’ve saved for it, enjoy it!
Hopefully, this will help you pay off your debt so you can jump for joy like this!

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Day 1970 – “I Will Sing To The Lord, Because He Has Dealt Bountifully With Me”
I think I’ve gotten a little “expectant” with God’s blessings recently and He graciously reminded me of this last night. God has given us SO much and kept us in a wonderful season of blessings! Just yesterday, I was freaking out a bit about cash flow. Most of what we purchase is done on our credit card (to rack up rewards!), but there are a few things that have to come out as cash or check. I had been worrying about having enough cash to do these things…and wouldn’t you know it…when I finally sat down to do the transactions, I had $10 to spare! It was another gentle reminder from God that He’s got this. It made me think about some other wonderful blessings He’s given us recently.
First, we are still out of debt. There have been a few tighter months where the balance stayed on the credit card for a week or two longer than I’d like, but no late fees. I know I blogged that we paid off $30,000 in the first 3.5 years of our marriage…But what I didn’t say was that before I met Bret, I might have been up to $50,000-60,000! That’s a lot of money to pay off…..and to have spent. Shesh. It boggles my mind that it’s finally gone. There is nothing like that feeling of paying it off. (Side note: we were not making a lot of money during this time. We made a lot of sacrifices to do this….if you want some tips, comment below and I’ll write them up in another blog post!)
Second, we got a total surprise bonus pay and it was nearly enough to pay for our flights to visit Bret’s family. California at Christmas is not the cheapest destination….by a long shot.
Third, we are in a place of being able to start investing in our retirement and an emergency fund.
Fourth, I have a new client that is a consistent, monthly guaranteed income. I mean, what???
I say these things not to say, hey, look at how great our situation is. But to say, God has dealt bountifully with us. He has continually kept us in a place of having “just enough” so we HAVE to look to Him for help. While it was super hard to go through the process of paying off our debt, I wouldn’t change it for the world. I think the most life changing moment was when I had to pay a set of bills and I had less than a dollar left over after paying for them…actually, it may have been pennies…So, if you’re walking through this now, know that someone has walked the road before you and there is hope!!

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