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About 365 days of marriage

I started this blog in April of 2011. At the time, Bret and I were wedding photographers and it was a way to share how marriage is more about the day to day and so much more than the wedding day itself. For about 5 years, I blogged about the joys and sorrows of the Christian walk, marriage, work, family and friends. I’ve blogged every day since a few weeks after I started. In May of 2015, we photographed our last wedding. Now, I have become passionate about simplicity, particularly in marriage, Christianity, business, travel and life. For a number of reasons, we have become minimalists. I’ve found that having simplicity makes life so much deeper, refreshing and joyful. I hope that this blog will help others see the benefits of living simply.

Day 2643 – Simplicity In Marriage – A Book That Changed Our Marriage Before It Started

Before we were married, we went through a book with our bible study, When Sinners Say I Do by Dave Harvey*. This book gave us some amazing advice and really helped prepare us for the journey ahead. The biggest thing that stood out to me is admitting to your spouse “I’m a big fat sinner.” Nearly eight years later and we still say this to each other, especially after a big argument. It basically means realizing that you are not a perfect person, you never will be and come into the marriage totally messed up. Have you read this book? What did you think?

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Day 2642 – Guest Post – Bret – Wife On Life – Leaving In The Morning

Today’s post is a little different. Bret thought it would be fun if he said what I’m thinking instead of me writing it. Here’s “my take” on leaving in the morning.

“Note to self: When my husband says, “Are you ready? Let’s go,” I should know he’s gonna go back a couple times…

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Don’t start putting my stuff on by the door, because I’m just going to have to wait for him.

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I swear, some days he’s worse than a woman.”